She’s unapologetically herself
She is unafraid of what others think of her. Thus, she isn’t willing to dim who she is to appease others. This honesty in embracing herself keeps her from living a lie with a guy just to be with a guy. Instead, she honors the covenant that she has with God and herself. This covenant is to honor Christ and to honor who Christ has shaped her to be.
She is patient when it comes to love because she’s resolved that she is worth it
She realizes that she isn’t your average Jane. So, she’ll need to be patient to wait for a brother who isn’t your average Joe. She finds great things to do while waiting that further prepare her for that special time of marriage she desires for her future. She carries herself as a woman of wisdom avoiding situations that will cause her to veer off the beaten path God has given her to walk. She carefully avoids situationships, hook-ups, and anything that would leave her stuck in something less than what God has for her.
She isn’t ashamed to stand on her standards
Her standards make her who she is. She’d be crazy without them. Her standards also protect her. She has embraced the fact that she is valuable to herself, God, and others. Thus, she embraces her standards no matter who doesn’t understand. She knows if she devalues herself by lowering her standards; she’ll be the one to pay the cost, not others who do not savor her value. She embraces herself realizing that it is her responsibility to value herself even when others don’t.
She isn’t discouraged when interested in a guy who doesn’t pursue her
If a man doesn’t value her enough to pursue her; he may not be the one or it may not be the appropriate time. She isn’t going to trip on her worth due to this. Instead, she is thankful for God’s protection as she trusts God regarding everything concerning her. She will guard her heart by not focusing on the gentleman she’s interested in so much. She will make sure her heart doesn’t begin to trust the idea of her crush more than Christ and God’s ability to give her the desires of her heart.
She is a confident woman because her heart is fixed. It’s fixed on Christ and the future that he has for her. Even when this woman becomes broken, she is whole because she looks to God.
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