Where Do Christian Singles Meet?
Everyone has their opinion on why so many Christians are single from being too picky or there not being enough godly men or women to choose from to feminism and more. However, the truth be told—it’s just been difficult for genuine and mature Christians to find one another.
When I was in my late 20s and early 30s, I had the Legacy conference to look forward to every year in Chicago. I just knew I’d meet some men my age and sisters in Christ to hang with. I did meet various men and experienced the norm.
The norm is everyone you may be interested in may not be interested in you. No matter how awesome you are—you still have to submit to God’s timing for a reciprocal God-honoring relationship. It simply was not time. At least, I had a place to look forward to meeting and seeing godly men. These are the things that provide evidence against the lie that there are no godly men out there and vice versa for the men regarding women.
Thankfully, there are many more co-ed opportunities for us to look forward to that have been opening up. Taking advantage of these opportunities help to make the wait a lot easier until God’s appointed time for us to become more than friends with our special someone. Check out the below places Christian singles meet.
The Sexless Tribe
Many Christian singles meet at TST. TST is The Sexless Tribe, a community for Christian Singles committed to practicing abstinence until marriage. The group is led by Shakia Seabrook. She hosts a meetup in Atlanta every year.
Yonci’s World
Single Christian men and women meet at Yonci’s world. However, her community isn’t exclusive to Christians although there are some Christians in her community. She is a mature dating coach with an exclusive Instagram page with several men looking for their wives. Not all. Discernment is required, but a good handful of mature brothers. I can tell there are mature men in the group because I’m in the Patreon group.
She polls the men asking them questions and allowing us women-folk to read the responses so we can have an idea of the mindsets of the men in the group. There is a low-cost $10 a month plan that allows access to all of this. Plus, we get an opportunity to meet together monthly via Zoom. For those who live in Dallas Texas—she hosts almost weekly events and she has a big one coming up Labor Day weekend for the singles to meet one another. To learn more about Yonci, consider following her Instagram.
Dear Future Wifey
If you aren’t familiar with Laterras Whitfield—you must be hiding under a rock. He is the founder of the L.I.T. community birthed from his weekly podcast—Dear Future Wifey. L.I.T. means living intentionally and transparently. As single believers, we do just that. He hosts annual trips and/or retreats. Last year, we went to Jamaica. It was co-ed. I believe he is planning something for November of this year. Check out his podcast and check the subscription box below a resent video to be added to his email list for information about future trips.
Fly and Unmarried
Fly and Unmarried is a single’s ministry out of a church in Florida. I met the gentleman who co-leads this group through a single’s FB group. He invited me and I pop in whenever I get the chance. He co-leads with a Christian therapist. They both provide insightful knowledge for singles on a Zoom with both single men and women. Everyone is seen and heard here as it’s a safe online community for Christian singles. Those interested will have to reach out to David via his Facebook page.
The Single Christian Hub – The Single Christian Hub is another place where single Christians meet. I found this while doing an internet search for something. I’ve not attended any of About (thechristiansingleshub.com)
Heart of Dating Conference
Let’s not forget about the Heart of Dating Community and Conference. The conference is held once per year. Single Christian men and women meet from all around the world to be poured into. Kait Wartman is the founder.
While many of us Christian singles may be single—that doesn’t mean we cannot meet up together and enjoy life. I’m so thankful for God’s keeping power! It’s kept me healthy, peaceful and persevering as a single. It’s my desire to see other single believers experience that and that’s why I created this list.
The Black National Convention
The Black National Convention is a place where mature Black people meet to learn about various topics to uplift the Black community. Topics range from business, AI, Self-help and more. There is also speed dating that takes place as well. Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the event and the Black Business School.
The Legacy Conference
The Legacy Conference is a staple where Christian singles meet among all Urban Christians in general. The conference isn’t specific to Christian singles but many of us would attend yearly. They are hosting the events in several cities. Workshops and musical guests are the highlights of the Legacy Conference. It’s definitely a nice place to meet like-minded believers.
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